We can’t show what we’re feeling, we’re always being judged for behaving a certain way and no matter how close a person may be, we somehow can’t open ourselves to them. If I had to ask you, when was the last time you really, truly expressed your feelings? When was it that you cried because you felt like it? Or laughed because you wanted to? If you can’t remember, you know what I’m talking about.įor some odd reason, we’re living in times when the true test of a person’s strength is to always keep it together. They will sometimes make mistakes and once we realise that, it’s easier for us to understand and accept their actions. But if we manage to see beyond the relationship, they’re people too. We expect our parents to act in a god-like perfect way. Don’t judge them too harshly for their mistakes.

If you’re suffering, the relationship will doom anyway.ĥ. Don’t stay in a relationship if you’re suffering.ĭon’t suffer if you’re not comfortable in the relationship just because you’re afraid to hurt your partner. But the strongest relationships aren’t founded on perfection, they’re built over the acceptance of many imperfections, and that’s what makes them all the more beautiful!Ĥ. More often than not, even if you find them, over time the “perfection” starts to get tainted. Instead of looking for perfection, celebrate imperfection.Įven though we’re all looking for someone special, we rarely find them in the first try. We don’t have these perfect expectations from friends, so why pressurize yourself to find that perfection in a partner? We know we’re not perfect either!ģ. We look for a partner who is just ‘perfect’ and we know, that’s just too much pressure.

There’s no such thing as the ‘perfect partner’. Choose a path that you feel comfortable with, even if it’s the easier one.Ģ.

Unless we go through a difficult struggle, we won’t achieve the ultimate prize. We’re conditioned to believe that to achieve our dreams, we must go through hardships. Don’t choose the tough path just because you have to. Dear Zindagi has some beautiful life lessons to offer and with no spoilers, here are 5 such lessons from the film that will stay with you for a long time.

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